There’s a song called Rude by Magic that goes “Can I have your daughter for the rest of my life? Say yes, Say yes cause I need to know, you say I’ll never get your blessing till the day I die,” “Tough luck my friend but the answer is still No”
“Why you gotta be so rude? Don’t you know am human too? Why you gotta be so rude? Am gonna marry her anyway, Marry that girl, Marry her anyway, Marry that girl, No matter what you say, Marry that girl, And we’ll be a family. I hate to do this, you leave no choice, can’t live without her, Love me or hate me, we will be boys, standing at that altar, or we will run away, To another galaxy you know, you know she’s in love with me, she’ll go anywhere I go…”
The story goes, it’s a man that won over a woman’s heart but her father refused to grant them the fatherly blessing as the man was not his ideal choice of husband that he wanted for his daughter. Well, she was blinded by love and they got married and eloped. So how do you do this? How do you win a woman’s heart to this extent?
It is a mystery, I don’t know either. Be sure to check my colleague Mercy’s article on this. She’s a woman so…
One thing though I do know, women are precious let me tell you. That little pound of flesh called the heart once marinated with love can glitter more than pearls. Shower her with acts of love. You are the artist in this case, our little Michelangelo; use your words to lift her soul and create an experience that is out of this world. Your mouth can do that; carry her into a realm where money cannot buy.
Make her feel special while you court her. Do not lose sight of the objective, consistency is key. Shower her with gifts, give her your undivided attention and time in full measure, touch her hands, fingers, waist or shoulders occasionally; this will rock her to the spine and by pass all security measures installed to keep you out of her heart. Simple as it may sound. It is magical.
When a woman loves you, treasure her and she will do so to the end of days. Until we speak again, I am your host Mitchell Odhiambo. Welcome to a man’s World. To get a female perspective on this, please click HERE to get Mercy’s views. You can also access more posts by Mitch by clicking HERE