On Why She Takes Forever To Say Yes Article shared from Quora website
QUESTION. I have already proposed to a girl, and I am waiting for her response. It’s been quite some time now. Having arrived at the brink of my patience, I ask her “When are you going to say a yes to my proposal ?” She replies saying that she is yet to give it a thought. I really do not understand if there’s any underlying meaning to this kind of an answer.
ANSWER. Depending on the girl, the reply may mean one of the following:
- She really hadn’t thought about this aspect of relationship between you two and genuinely takes a real long time to decide. Now why she needs so much time is a different story altogether.
- Your proposal caught her unawares and she doesn’t want to say no because she fears she’d lose your friendship as well.
- Your proposal caught her unawares, while she might be getting interested in someone else, and now she’s evaluating all the options (you, the other guy, or no one yet)
- She may be trying your patience
You gotta tread lightly. So what you gotta do? Assure her that you can take a no without affecting the current relationship. At least that’d help her get honest with you about what she really has in mind. Do remember that no one’s obliged to accept a proposal. After all, everyone has their own priorities in life and what they want out of it. To get a male perspective on What to do when she takes forever to say YES, click link – http://goo.gl/jL0Q70
