Men always marvel at how much a woman can recall. To the date, the minute, the outfit you wore and the exact words you used, to put across an issue. It’s unbelievable. Every moment is mixed with emotion and therefore momentously stored where there is significant recollection.
Men on the other hand, have memories remotely stored and selectively remember in a fashion that is beyond their control; almost forgetting as soon as the words have left their mouths.
Doesn’t it surprise you how many men are shocked that their wives are pregnant? When the woman breaks the news, the fellow is shocked. Some even ask how? The woman has been carrying this seed, nurtured it and in response is giving you a child. That’s the paradox that accompanies the seed carrier. He sows seed yet he is caught by surprise whenever his seed yields harvest.
Even when it comes to relationships between men and women, a lot of women are in pain and turmoil yet tonnes of men are walking around clueless. They went all poetic on a woman, taking her on a journey out of this world by the words they spoke. The seed germinated in her and she loved him, yet the farmer has not the slightest sense. A woman’s heart is like a garden. When you sow seed and water the garden, you will get an abundant harvest.
Men, we got to be careful with women and protect them at all costs. If you are not sure, you want to marry a girl, don’t overwhelm her with gifts and sweet words. You could very well be in different worlds. Soon, you will be ambushed by the proverbial questions; “What are we?” “We need to talk” “Where is this going?” and so on and so forth.
Let’s take responsibility for those around us. Until we speak again, I am your host Mitchell Odhiambo. Welcome to a man’s world. Click HERE to read more posts by Mitchell
