On ‘FRIENDS COME IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES’ By Mercy Karumba

Do we sometimes look at someone and start evaluating at first impression whether we can be friends with them? In these instances, we often look at how...


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Do we sometimes look at someone and start evaluating at first impression whether we can be friends with them? In these instances, we often look at how much of a benefit that person can be to us and how much alike we are. If we are guilty of this, then lets read on:

A lone elephant wandered the forest looking for friends. She came across a monkey and asked, “Will you be my friend, monkey?”

“You are too big and cannot swing on trees as I do. So I cannot be your friend”, said the monkey.

The elephant them came across a rabbit and asked him if she could be his friend. “You are too big to fit inside my burrow. You cannot be my friend”, replied the rabbit.

Then the elephant met a frog and asked if she could be her friend. The frog said “You are too big and heavy. You cannot jump like me. I am sorry, but you cannot be my friend”.

The elephant asked a fox, and he got the same reply, that he was too big. The next day, all the animals in the forest were running in fear. The elephant stopped a bear and asked what was happening and was told that a tiger has been attacking all the animals.

The elephant wanted to save the other weak animals and went to the tiger and said “Please sir, leave my friends alone. Do not eat them”. The tiger didn’t listen and asked the elephant to mind her own business. Seeing no other way to solve the problem, the elephant kicked the tiger and scared it away.

She then went back to the others and told them what happened. On hearing how the elephant saved their lives, the animals agreed in unison, “You are just the right size to be our friend”.

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Friends come with different gifts and abilities, friends come with different skill-sets and talents, friends come with different heights, size, and complexions, friends come from different backgrounds and customs and most importantly, friends come with different perspectives, preferences, and opinions.

If we decide to judge based on what we see or based on pre-determined perceptions of what our friends should be like, then we might miss out on so many opportunities of having valuable people in our lives.

It took the elephant saving the lives of the other animals for them to learn that he could be a good friend. We might not have that opportunity to learn our lesson the hard way, but we have an opportunity to give a chance of friendship to someone today. I am personally grateful for the diversity in friendships in my life, as they have impacted me in one way or the other. To read more posts by Mercy, click HERE

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